"The
prickly pears profile is most pleasant in the PM hours" , now that is the
perfect phrase for the session this morning thought Influential Irene as she
paraded (last one) around the office.
Avid Andy could not help but notice the smirk on Irene's face, not too
different than that of the Chester Cat in Alice's Adventures in
Wonderland. Irene, your expression has
me most intrigued, what thoughts are running around your head? A smile filled Irene's face as she shared;
"this morning during our weekly meeting with the office and field folks, I
am going to play a little game that I haven't played since I was a child -
operator". You could see Andy
grinning and moments later erupt in laughter as Irene shared the phrase that
would be put to the test in the game.
NOTE: before the ridiculous
number of digital distractions, we made up
games that involved humans interacting directly with one another…crazy
right?
Irene
walked to the front of the 50 person training room and the packed room
respectfully got very quiet. For
dramatic pause Irene stood there for what must have seemed like a lifetime to
the audience, looked up and blurted out:
the prickly pears profile is most pleasant in the PM hours. Would it be rude, thought Irene, if I pulled
out my camera to capture their expressions?
Possibly a bit too far? Okay, no
picture but I have to see their faces again…so once more Irene announced the
"p" packed phrase. Curiosity
replaced shock on the meeting attendees faces.
In her most deliberate voice Irene instructed the audience to break up
into groups of five, one person starts and will whisper the phrase into the second
persons ear, second person to the third, third to the fourth, fourth to the
fifth where the phrase will be written down.
Each fifth person will then write down their phrase on the whiteboard
for everyone to see.
The
room became energized as the phrases were shared on the whiteboard, some
giggling and a bit of embarrassment.
Once the last group had shared their phrase Chaotic Chris asked Irene,
"this was fun, but exactly what is the point?" Excellent question Chris, responded
Irene. Since we last met, several
customers and prospects have informed us that many of our folks seem compelled to
be right. As a client describes their
conditions, presents a complaint, or asks for advice, we may repeat to them
what we heard, which is many instances is incorrect as proven here today, and
then go on to disprove why our clients testimony is incorrect or
irrelevant. Solutions for our clients
can only be found when we have sincerely put ourselves in their shoes. Possibly your ego, insecurities - personal
and professional, lack of experience or knowledge is filling your ears with
wax. Suddenly the rooms energy shifted
from fun-filled to serious; "stop always having to be right, nobody gives a
crap what you know" said Irene in a stern voice. Your clients want to trust you, it is only
then that you will be able to solve their problems, inserted Andy. Listening is the only direct path to
understanding, empathy, and providing real value to your clients.
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